7 Fantastic Tips on how to become a better lover for Your Man

Ladies: There is no perfect man. Get over it. And in case you didn’t get the memo; you are not perfect either. I know, hard to believe. But have you ever noticed that there are no words spoken after “Happily Ever After”? Why doesn’t anyone talk about that? You know the moments after you throw yourself into a relationship? Maybe that’s because we don’t understand relationship maintenance at all or really how to care for each other past the first blush of heat. Do you really know how to love a man or are you living in constant conflict?....

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6 Options When It Feels Like There’s Nothing To Talk About With Your Long Distance Love

Do you ever get on the line with your long distance partner and feel like you have nothing to say? This was the situation I found myself in when my first child was born. Because of where we were living at the time, I had to travel to Australia three months before I was due to give birth, while my husband, Mike, mostly stayed behind in Laos. He was with me during the birth, and then left again for another couple of months three weeks later. When we first met long distance, Mike and I used to talk for two to three hours on Skype several times a week about all sorts of interesting things...

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5 Steps to Make Any Man Fall in Love

I got an e-mail from a reader the other day saying: “All that is great (it was in response to a newsletter article I sent out), but what are the steps to make a man fall in love with me?!” I had to laugh at the (seemingly) adorable naiveté of her questions. To think making a man fall in love could be reduced to a simple set of instructions! Later in the day, I started thinking about her question a little more. The more I thought about it, the more I realized that getting a man to fall in love really can be achieved following a few simple steps. And I was instantly able to pinpoint what they are. Here you go: Step 1: Attraction This is the most obvious step…sparking a guy’s interest always starts with attraction. Being attractive to a guy doesn’t necessarily mean looking like a cover girl, it really boils down to being confident with who you are and what you look like...

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10 Signs He Loves You Secretly

We’ve probably all heard the philosophy that when a guy is into you, he’ll make sure you know it. While that idea is floating around out there for good reason, it’s not always as black and white as you’d think. Even when a guy is clear about his intentions, if you’re lacking self-esteem yourself, you might subconsciously label it as something different. Revealing romantic feelings for another person requires a level of vulnerability that’s always going to be hard – no matter your gender. Just because men are traditionally more upfront about their feelings than some women doesn’t mean that all guys are pros at showing their hand. MORE: 11 Undeniable Signs He’s In Love With You Some guys take the slow play approach, not doing anything too bold but consistently nosing into your orbit. Others prefer moves that are pretty much undeniable, regardless of your confidence. If you’re in the unenviable position of trying to decide how much a guy cares about you, we’re here to help. Here are 26 of the signs a guy is confessing his love...

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How to Make Him Miss You Bad And Love You More

So you want to know how to make your ‘bf’ miss you? Use this simple guide with a guy and you’ll have him missing you like crazy (and loving you all the more). Who doesn’t want to feel missed by a man? Whether you’re crushing on a new guy, in a relationship with one, or considering getting back together with an ex, it’s always preferable to have him miss you. There’s a fine line between being your most charming self and getting lost in mind-games. One way to help distinguish which side of that line you’re on is whether or not you feel like you’re being yourself. If you find yourself resorting to methods that don’t feel true to you, that’s a red flag. Even if you do manage to snag the object of your affection, are you really going to want to keep up these tricks during the relationship? Here’s our handy list of 16 ways to make him miss you...

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